Fleshlight Guide – The Best Men’s Sex Toy

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Fleshlights are the most popular men’s sex toy on the planet. And with good reason. They are high quality and feel AMAZING!!!

If you’re looking for a realistic vagina stroker, the Fleshlight is the best you’re going to find. If you’ve never experienced using a male sex toy, then we recommend you start with a Fleshlight.

Fleshlight has made a wide variety of sex toy strokers modeled after the private parts of some of the most amazing port stars in the business. These are called the Fleshlight Girls collection and they are pretty amazing. They also have a gay men’s collection called FleshJack. These are specifically designed with male on male sex in mind.

In addition to making classic Fleshlight strokers, they also make a wide variety of sex toy lubes and sex toy cleaners. You can use these on your Fleshlight or most any other sex toy. Below you’ll find our Fleshlight link directory. The links below will take you to the Fleshlight site.


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General Fleshlight Link Directory

Here’s a collection of links that will take you to various official Fleshlight pages. Good stuff here and a great place to start your Fleshlight investigations

Fleshlight Inserts

Fleshlights are well made, feel amazing and can get you off like nothing else. They are pocket pussies or artificial vaginas with a hard outer shell and a patented soft inner sleeve. The sleeves and shells are interchangable, so once you get one shell you can swap out different sleeves. Each sleeve feels different. Many are modeled directly after the vaginas, assholes, and mouths of famous porn stars.

Here are just a few of the MANY Fleshlight inserts available. The links below will take you to the inserts at Amazon.

Speedbump Fleshlight Sleeve

This is a narrower sleeve similar in diameter to the super tight. It has a textured wall on the interior of the sleeve that massages with small convex rounded dimples running down its entire length and all the way around.

These dimples create hundreds of concentrated pressure points that give an amazing massaging feeling from the base all the way to the tip. Good stuff here.

If you like the Speed Bump, check out the Stamina Training Unit. This is a larger diameter sleeve that is similar to the speed bump but the small convex dimples have been replaced by larger flat ones. This sleeve was developed to train men to last longer during sex before orgasm and has received rave reviews.

Wonder Wave

The Wonder Wave is a larger diameter Fleshlight sleeve similar in size to the original Pink Lady insert.

It is molded with 14 protruding concentric rings that run down its length that constantly provide sensory overload to the base and tip of the head.

The Wonder Wave Fleshglight insert/sleeve features a cone shaped entrance that perfectly cradles the head on its way in.

If you like the Wonder Wave you might also try out the Fleshlight Super Ribbed Sleeve. This is the super tight equivalent of the wonder wave. It is a smaller diameter sleeve with 36 concentric rings from top to bottom. The same cone shaped entrance as in the wonder wave beckons you inside.

Fleshlight Lotus Sleeve

The lotus is an advancement in design of Fleshlight sleeves by featuring different textures in different compartments inside of The Fleshlight that give constantly fluctuating sensations along the length of the penis. 🙂

It begins with an hourglass shaped lotus node followed by either four (in the standard size) or five(in the mini) chambers located in the back of the sleeve.

It is also the only sleeve currently being produced as a mini. The mini is designed for men four inches or smaller and allows them to reach the smaller compartments in the back of the sleeve.

Ice Fleshlight and Sleeve

The Ice Fleshlight comes with a specially designed sleeve that is one of the most intense yet produced. It is a medium sized sleeve mixing narrow channels and larger chambers.

It begins with a small circular chamber ringed with bumps. A tight gently ribbed channel then gives way to a second larger ribbed chamber. A second circular chamber follows that and has bumps lining it followed by an extremely tight and ribbed passage that again opens up and tapers off in the final chamber of the ice sleeve.

This is a delightful choice for men opting for lots of variety in their sleeves.

Stoya Fleshlight

One of the most frequent questions we get asked is about the different textures available in Fleshlights. All of the variations can be a little daunting, but having a fair understanding of what these textures are and how they differ can be key in finding the right Fleshlight for you. In that vein we compile the most comprehensive list of the different textures available in one place and give brief comments on each.

You can visit Fleshlight.com and see all the Fleshlight Sleeves and Textures currently for sale.

Fleshlight Lotus Sleeve

The lotus is an advancement in design of Fleshlight sleeves by featuring different textures in different compartments inside of The Fleshlight that give constantly fluctuating sensations along the length of the penis.

It begins with an hourglass shaped lotus node followed by either four (in the standard size) or five(in the mini) chambers located in the back of the sleeve.

It is also the only sleeve currently being produced as a mini. The mini is designed for men four inches or smaller and allows them to reach the smaller compartments in the back of the sleeve.

Fleshlight Vortex Sleeve

The Vortex is a larger sleeve in diameter similar to the original.

It was introduced as the signature texture of The Alien Fleshlight and later brought back due to customer demand and is now available in several models. Additional texture in the vortex sleeve is provided by tightly arranged spiraling arms running down the inside of the sleeve from top to bottom.

This is definitely a fan favorite.

Flight Pilot Fleshlight

This texture is only available in The Fleshlight Flight. The Pilot texture seems to be a combination of several of the popular Fleshlight textures arranged in chambers running down the inside of the sleeve in a similar fashion to The Stoya Destroya.

Flight Instructor Fleshlight

The Instructor texture has a chamber with large protruding bumps followed by a channel at the end that most resembles the original Fleshlight texture. Somewhat less intense than The Pilot texture this is the perfect choice for guys who are especially sensitive. It is the Flight’s equivalent of the Stamina Training Unit’s sleeve.

The Blade Fleshlight

The Blade comes with an exclusive texture consisting of four chambers of increasing size lined with uniform ribs. It has been designed to provide the strongest sensations for guys who like an especially tight grip.

TheLegend Fleshlight

The legend is the exclusive sleeve of The Jenna Jameson Fleshlight and is a sleeve of differing widths that larger men will appreciate. The ever changing diameter of this model features bumps, dots, ribs, squares and nubs running in groups from one end of the sleeve to the other. An extremely versatile sleeve offering lots of different sensations.

Stoya The Destroya Fleshlight

Three small rings of bumps circle the first area of this sleeve followed by a 360 degree dome that gives unmatched stimulation. That is followed by soft fangs that point inward and gently caress what is inserted. One row of large bumps comes next followed by a gently ribbed and gently narrowing channel at the end. The Stoya Destroya has become one of our favorites!

Cougar – Nina Hartley Sleeve

The cougar is the Nina Hartley exclusive that is perfect for larger men. It features a row of bumps along the top and bottom and ridges. It mixes the best of the speedbump and super ribbed but for larger guys this time.

Tease – Tera Paticrick’s Signature Fleshlight Sleeve

Tera Patrick’s signature Vagina Fleshlight comes with a unique sleeve dubbed for good reason The Tease. An insanely tight opening gives way to series of chambers each featuring a new sensation. The first has large outward facing fingers followed by a smaller, tighter channel that is ribbed and leads to a lotus node. The node leads into a small chamber filled with downward facing fingers. The chamber begins to narrow around a section with criss crossing ribs and finally ends with the smallest section of the sleeve featuring small bumps.

Twisted Sleeve- Tera Patrick Fleshlight Sleeve

This sleeve was developed for exclusive use in the Tera Patrick Butt Fleshlight. It is a medium diameter sleeve that becomes larger near the entrance and gently tapers in the back end. It has one ring that spirals gently inward nine times gently sucking you in. Think of it as a cross between the vortex and wonder wave. The twisted does a good job replicating the sensation given by a woman’s narrowing cavity.


This sleeve is an exclusive to the Angela White Vagina Fleshlight. It features four oval shaped chambers laid out in a vertical position one on top of the other that get progressively smaller and tighter. Bumps run down the length of the sleeve and vary in size from the smallest located where the chambers connect, the narrowest part of the sleeve to the largest located at the widest parts of the ovals.

Entice Angela White Fleshlight Sleeve

Available exclusively on the Angela White Butt Fleshlight, the entice sleeve starts wide and narrows considerably half way into it. It features spirals of flattened ridges arranged in a similar fashion to the twisted but with soft fingers extending off of them. Between the ridges are circular shaped ribs that provide an extreme amount of pull.

Gauntlet Jesse Jane Fleshlight

The gauntlet was introduced in the Jesse Jane Fleshlight and is a variation on the lotus sleeve. The notable differences are that the lotus node has been moved forward slightly so that men with smaller penises can easily reach it and that the textures behind the lotus node are slightly different. Instead of the chambers located behind the lotus node we find different types of bumps that apply directed pressure on all sides.

Lotus Garden

The lotus garden sleeve is a smaller diameter sleeve that comes in The Katsuni Fleshlight. Nine lotus nodes are lined one after another on the inside of this sleeve and offer unmatched pleasure. The lotus garden offers one of the most intense sensations imaginable!

Primal Fleshlight Sleeve Insert

The primal insert is another variation on the popular lotus concept. It resembles the gauntlet closely but with one hidden surprise inside! A second lotus node is located about 2/3 of the way down this sleeve that creates mind blowing sensations. This sleeve is recommended for men with longer penises as those measuring under six inches will not be able to reach the second lotus node.

Bump N’ Grind Fleshlight Texture- Missy Stone

The Bump N’ Grind texture comes exclusively with The Missy Stone Vaginal Fleshlight and is a first for Fleshlight. For the first time a darker skin tone is represented; diversifying their brand seems to be important to the makers of the Fleshlight and we expect to see more and more diversity in their designs. The texture itself seems to be alternating chambers of two of their most popular sleeves: the speedbump and vortex textures.

Love Humps

The love humps texture is a smaller diameter sleeve and available exclusively on the Teagan Presley Butt Fleshlight. It is made of five hourglass shaped chambers laying end to end and provides for variable pressure on all sides on insertion. Tight areas give way to larger openings, etc…

Torrid Tori Black Fleshlight Sleeve

This is a completely new design for Fleshlight sleeves available exclusively on The Tori Black Vagina model and is a smaller diameter sleeve. It has five equally sized chambers with different textures in each; bumps, ridges, and fangs line the inside of these chambers. They are separated by flexible ridges that clearly demarcate the different chambers.

Nipple Alley

This is a large sized sleeve developed for the Riley Steele Fleshlight. It features the large convex bumps of the speedbump texture and adds tiny tickling sensations around the entire shaft. This is a more laid back option and should appeal to guys who want to last a little longer with their Fleshlight; for this reason I would highly recommend this model for couples wanting to play.

Bookworm Fleshlight Sleeve

The bookworm is a medium diameter sleeve available only on the Kayden Kross Vaginal Fleshlight. The opening spirals downward and features pronounced bumps and cross ridges that run down the entire length of the spiral. This Fleshlight sleeve, with its unique spiraling shape, gives constantly changing feelings of pleasure as pressure gently builds in a coil pattern.

Dragon Fleshlight Sleeve

The dragon is a wider sleeve that combines elements of several popular Fleshlight textures and is available on The Asa Akira Vagina model. It takes the idea of the twisted, with larger ridges angled downward and adds convex bumps to the ridges. In between the ridges and running down the entire inside of the sleeve are smaller ridges similar to those found in the super ribbed arranged horizontally.

Forbidden Sleeve

The forbidden sleeve is available exclusively on the Butt Fleshlights of several of the Fleshlight Girl models. It features a tight entrance lined with 13 evenly spaced ribs that lead to a tightly coiled wave that have variable width. This is a sure thing for butt lovers.

Texas Tornado

The Texas tornado sleeve is a unique medium diameter addition specifically paired with The Alexis Texas Butt Fleshlight. It is a redesign of the helical coil sleeves that places a premium on the sensations given during actual intercourse. The coil is looser in this model and features large concave dimples arranged between diagonal concave ridges.

Fleshlight Sleeve -The Outlaw

The outlaw is a sleeve that features a larger opening followed by a slightly coiled chamber behind it that has a row of horizontal bumps followed by a row of slightly raised bumps running vertically and ending with another row of horizontal bumps. A flap gives way to two small chambers of decreasing size that lead to a gently tapering and coiled channel that is similar to the first coiled chamber. It comes exclusively on The Alexis Texas Vagina Fleshlight featuring an ultra realistic mold based on her anatomy.

Attack Christy Mack Fleshlight Sleeve

The attack sleeve comes exclusively with the Christy Mack Vagina Fleshlight and is an extremely satisfying larger sleeve with many different features inside.

It begins with a bell shaped chamber that is ringed first by a horizontal row of smaller bumps and then by a row of larger ones nearer the fat end of the bell. A second large chamber is filled with a few surprises: angled rows of small and large bumps and ridges provide a varied experience. At the deepest part of the attack we find oval chambers of decreasing size resembling the deepest part of the lotus-mini sleeve.

The Booty Fleshlight Sleeve

The booty is the exclusive insert to the Christy Mack Butt Fleshlight. It is filled with six chambers each lined with vertically non-continuous ribs. The tight rings that lead from one chamber to the next also have these non-continuous vertical ribs.

Joanna Angel Misfit Sleeve

The misfit is an exclusive sleeve to The Joanna Angel Vagina Fleshlight and is one of our favorite medium sized sleeves. It has an entrance of four tightly packed ribs followed by a lotus node that pushes inward towards a large chamber filled with nubs and bumps. Next we find a tapering wonder wave that leads its way into a tightly waving and narrowing canal.

Punk Joanna Angel Fleshlight Sleeve

Exclusive to the Joanna Angel Butt Fleshlight the punk is a great sleeve that features a long channel that widens and narrows in turns. Running the entire length of the sleeve are ribs that vary in depth and width. This model is for the more adventurous types.

Barracuda Fleshlight Sleeve

The barracuda is an exclusive texture available with The Lisa Ann Vagina Fleshlight. It features two chambers divided by a constricting ring. While the chambers themselves are on the large side, the constricting ring is fairly tight.

The first chamber has gentle outward leaning fingers that offer resistance as you enter. After squeezing through the constricting ring, dozens more of these finger await, but this time in an inward direction which offers the sensation of being sucked in.

Jenna Haze Obsession Sleeve

The obsession comes exclusively in the Jenna Haze Fleshlight with a signature mold of her vagina. It features six concentric bell on top of bell forms that give way to a long narrowing chamber full of outward leaning fingers.

The lust is exclusively available with the Jenna Haze Fleshlight Butt. With a tight entry followed by a downward facing bell shape that sucks you on after the initial resistance and followed with a gently winding section of three chambers featuring large bumps, then small bumps, followed by ridges, this anal simulator is one of the best we’ve seen.

Bi-Hive Fleshlight Texture

The Bi-Hive texture is a sleeve featuring alternating areas of protruding ridges and bumps that apply varying degrees of directed pressure to the penis shaft and head. The main distinguishing feature of this sleeve is the wider than average canal. Measuring 3/4 of an inch wide it is recommended for men with wide penises.

Heavenly Jessica Drake Fleshlight

The heavenly comes with the Jessica Drake Vagina Fleshlight that should appeal greatly to smaller guys who want textured chambers.

It features a super tight opening followed by a convex/concave mirror pattern followed by an extremely tight passage. What happens next is magical. A tightly wound coil shape is gently ribbed by non-continuous humps. A lotus node awaits and leads to the final chamber filled with first tightly packed ribs and then small bumps.

Swallow Fleshlight Model

This sleeve is available as the mouth on all of The Fleshlight signature pornstar models. It is essential for the oral aficionado and should also appeal to smaller guys.

It has an inward bell shaped entrance that is ribbed by a non-continuous ridge that mimics the sensation of teeth gently rubbing the underside and top. We then find 12 concentric one on top of the other downward facing bells that give way to a final larger chamber at the back of the throat before tapering off into an extremely narrow channel at the back.

The Blade

The Blade comes with an exclusive texture consisting of four chambers of increasing size lined with uniform ribs. It has been designed to provide the strongest sensations for guys who like an especially tight grip.

Alien Fleshlight

The Fleshlight Alien has its own newly designed sleeve that is good for larger guys. It has a first chamber filled with vertical diagonal ribs leading to a large bell and lotus node. Beyond that is a final chamber filled with large speed bumps.


The Zombie sleeve has been specially designed as a smaller insert for The Zombie Fleshlight. It has crooked ribs that give way to a chamber filled with small ribs and leading to a lotus node. Beyond that lies a second chamber filled with much larger ribs which lead to a tightly wound coil on the bottom.


The Frankenstein Fleshlight also has a designated specially designed sleeve that is a nice medium sized fetish option. It has a large lotus node followed by a small chamber filled with small convex bumps and a larger chamber filled with slightly irregular slanted ribs. The end of the sleeve is a tighter canal filled with four vertical zig zagging ribs that resemble the vortex in their orientation.


The cyborg is the last of The Fleshlight Freak collection and also is equipped with its own newly designed sleeve. This is a mellower sleeve that will allow guys to last longer while using it. This is another good option for couples looking to use a fleshlight together.

It is a larger sleeve comprised of three chambers. The first is a smaller chamber with small concave horizontal ribs and irregular convex vertical ribs. Chamber two is a medium sized compartment filled with much larger concave horizontal ribs. The final chamber is a narrower chamber filled with the larger concave horizontal ribs.

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